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REDISCOVER YOUR RELATIONSHIP.

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COMMUNICATION IS CRITICAL

We think we communicate all the time. 
Whether it’s about mundane things like who’s picking up the kids, paying the bills, or what you would like for dinner. It might even be about important decisions for our future.
However, when we’re frustrated or dissatisfied with our relationship, we often resort to criticism and negativity toward our partners. 
It’s easy to fall into the trap of criticizing our loved ones. 
When we feel like they’re not meeting our expectations or not doing what we want them to do.
We might say things like
“You never listen to me.”
“You always do that.” 
“You’re wrong.”
“You’re overreacting.”
“I don’t have time for this.”
“You’re being irrational.”
“You never appreciate what I do.”
“You’re so selfish.”
“I’m always the one who has to apologize.”
But the truth is, criticism doesn’t help our relationship and can harm it in the long run. 
When we criticize our partner, we are telling them. You are not enough!
We fear we won’t be loved when we feel like we are not enough. 
We create negative energy and a cycle of blame and resentment. 
This can erode trust and intimacy and lead to a breakdown in communication and the bedroom.

INSTEAD OF CRITICIZING

Start trading in your criticisms for appreciation.
Focus on what your partner does for you.
What they bring to the relationship.
When we appreciate our partner,
We create positive energy and a cycle of love and gratitude.
This can strengthen the trust and intimacy in our relationship. It leads to better communication and a deeper connection.
To make this work, Let’s start with small, everyday moments of appreciation.
Notice the little things your partner does for you.
Things like making coffee in the morning, cleaning up, going to the supermarket, making the bed, preparing meals, offering to help with a task or chore, paying the bills, and going to work.
Find something, anything at all, and let them know you appreciate it. Don’t take the little things for granted.
Stop criticizing them for not doing more or where they fell short. Show your appreciation daily.
You can also write down a list of things you appreciate about your partner and share it with them.
It can be a powerful way to express gratitude and strengthen your connection.

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1:1 COACHING

Whether you’re not getting what you want out of your marriage, family dynamics, or career, relationships are always at the core— the one with ourselves, the one with others, and the one that connects to the world at large. After years of coaching people through marital and family relationships, towards business goals, and to address individual emotional needs, I developed a philosophy that aligns perspective to create results— MTU or Me. Them. Us.

INDIVIDUAL & TOGETHER

COUPLES COACHING

Women and men are biologically, physically, and spiritually wired very differently. These differences are meant to drive magnetism and create a balance of feminine and masculine energies. When you can begin to look inward for alignment instead of outward for blame, you’ll start showing up as the best version of yourself, which will bring out the best in your partner.

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As members of the Jewish community, we are grateful for your ambassadorship in referring us to individuals and couples in need. While based in Tri-State Area 70% of the year, we are active throughout the US and Israel every year. Between keynotes and speaking actively to organizations and communities throughout the US, we do specialize in individual and couples coaching locally and virtually, and in small cohorts/groups.

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